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Have you had your daily dose of pleasure today? We all know, too well, how to work hard and handle all of our responsibilities. But if you want a reminder about your joy and the celebration of you, my books are designed to point you in the right direction and give you the tools for getting there.

These books are not only a great read, but will become your best daily reminder of prioritizing pleasure in your life!

Pussy: A Reclamation

Discover what no one taught you about the source of your feminine power, and how to use it.

Pussy: A Reclamation, provides a pathway for us as women to step out of victimhood and into our inherent radiance. Consider this book your roadmap to get unstuck, empowered, and turned on.

I wrote this book to reacquaint a woman with that part of herself that is the key to everything she has ever been looking for but has been taught to ignore, push down, and despise.

Now, I know the title is provocative. Straight up offensive to some. Indeed, Pussy is arguably the most pejorative word in the English language. And like any expletive used effectively, this book is meant to be a wake up call. It is a reclamation, in a world that desperately requires the feminine.

In this book, you’ll learn:

  • Key practices required to seek and speak your deepest truth, no matter what
  • How to embody radical self-celebration, and why it will change your life
  • How to end the war with your body—and rather, see it for what it is: beautiful, sacred, powerful and so, so worthy of approval
  • How to trade depletion, obligation, overwork and resentment for gratitude-filled, passionate contribution to our families, communities and society
  • Why a woman’s sensual awareness is critical for her spiritual, intellectual, and emotional health
  • What’s ahead on the next frontier of feminism—and how you can help make it happen
  • And much, much more

Pussy provides a whole new paradigm for how to operate, along with game-changing tools and practices to navigate any area of your life—relationships, career, body, confidence, sensuality, and more.

This book has been brewing in me for the past decade, and it’s finally here—it is the culmination of my life’s work, and it contains the teachings and practices that I’ve seen change thousands of lives inside The School of Womanly Arts Mastery classroom.

Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts — The Book

“Think of it as The Power of Positive Thinking as interpreted by Anais Nin.” —Alex Witchell, The New York Times

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Finally in book form, Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts will help readers across the country recognize and unleash their full feminine potential—and have a great time doing it.

You’ve heard the saying, “Do what you love, and the money will follow.” Mama Gena takes that sentiment one step further and exhorts women to do what they love, because everything will follow—success, romance, wealth and fulfillment. Relationship expert Regena Thomashauer (a.k.a. Mama Gena) urges women to learn this simple principle: Self-indulgence is the key to self-empowerment.

But in order to pursue pleasure, one must know pleasure. Believe it or not, most women can’t pinpoint what really makes them happy. After all, are women ever taught to celebrate their appetites, whether it’s for chocolate ice cream or a more entertaining sex life? In her School of Womanly Arts, Mama Gena transforms ordinary women into glowing Sister Goddesses—women fully in tune with the mystical, creative power of their sensuality—and teaches them how to use their creative power to build the life they want. She explains the lost art of giving in to desires (even if it’s just for a new lipstick), seeking fun and pleasure at home and at work, and navigating the world using feminine power instead of patriarchal rules.

This is pleasure boot camp and, be forewarned, the exercises are tough: Assignments include flirting for fun, flexing your intuition, buying yourself presents, bragging about your accomplishments, and much more. Sister Goddesses report magical results: they get job offers, fall in love, find new possibilities and discover new passions.

Mama Gena’s Owner’s and Operator’s Guide to Men — The Book

“Mama knows best.” —New York Post

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Are you frustrated and confused by men? Have no fear, Mama Gena is here to teach you how to have your way with men, for their benefit as well as yours! Mama will guide you toward getting everything you want, desire and deserve from relationships. In Mama Gena’s Owner’s and Operator’s Guide to Men, Regena Thomashauer, the sassy, straight-talking, nationally renowned pleasure expert, reveals an entirely new model for relationships based on a fundamental truth: Men are there purely for pleasure.

In her first book, Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts, the author offered up a life-changing philosophy that enabled women to access joy, gratification, energy and fun, all day, every day. With Mama Gena’s Owner’s and Operator’s Guide to Men, she applies her personal brand of insight to training a man to give you everything you want, the way you want it, leaving him exquisitely happy in the process. According to Mama Gena, relationships work best when the woman’s desires are completely fulfilled. And, the truth is, men live to please women, whether they know it or not.

We are done, done, done with women doing things to make other people happy at the expense of themselves. Mama Gena states that it’s time to discard the old survival paradigm for relationships, where women trade sex, housekeeping and children for food and shelter from male providers, and happiness is not a priority. In its place, she provides a blueprint for creating an equal partnership with a man that reflects and enhances you, that brings you and your beloved the kind of intimacy and ecstasy that you long for and so rightfully deserve.

Women have been in charge of men since the dawn of time, they just didn’t have the right instruction manual. Until now. Mama Gena’s Owner’s and Operator’s Guide to Men explains that the first rule in training a man is, “If Mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.” It encourages women to take the initiative by investigating what gives them pleasure and then expressing their desires. Bursting with Mama Gena’s kick-ass attitude, humor and unconventional wisdom, the book reveals what works: telling the truth, nicely; taking responsibility for your pleasure; and showing appreciation for all that he does in a generous way. And what doesn’t work: ignoring your happiness, believing a man can read your mind about what you want and being angry with him for not fulfilling your unspoken needs.

In this provocative relationship manual, Mama Gena also advises a woman to:

  • Tell him what you like—from how you like to be kissed to which restaurant you want to go to for dinner—and ask for what you want.
  • Claim your sexual birthright. Have it your way in bed. Figure out what drives you to ecstasy and then teach him.
  • Train every man in your life. Don’t wait for “the one.”
  • If your frog refuses to turn into a prince, move on!

Written in Regena Thomashauer’s inimitable style, Mama Gena’s Owner’s and Operator’s Guide to Men reveals the secrets every woman needs to know—about training men, building a relationship, achieving total passion in and out of the bedroom, and creating a relationship of true friendship and genuine intimacy that enhances both partners.

Mama Gena’s Marriage Manual

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So, you found yourself a man. You owned him, you operated him, you dragged him back to your cave and married him—and now you can’t remember why you wanted him! Not to fear because celebrated relationship expert Regena Thomashauer has returned, ready to turn the walking, talking, caretaking coma that is your marriage into a hot, juicy celebration of love and life.

Have you ever felt that your daily responsibilities are taking a toll on your general enthusiasm, your desire for intimacy? Or that you needed to ask your husband for permission before you went somewhere or did something? Or that you find yourself angry at him for no real reason? You may be suffering from the Good Wife Syndrome. The Good Wife Syndrome is a common malady characterized by an unnatural drive to sacrifice yourself, organize your married life around your husband’s needs, and then blame your bewildered husband for your profound unhappiness.

Mama Gena’s Marriage Manual is coming to remedy your condition by administering a simple yet tremendously effective antidote: fun. Yes that’s right, fun. Mama Gena wants you to throw out your preconceived notions of what marriage should be and allow yourself to construct a marriage based on your own personal gratification. Because whether it’s enjoying a great cup of coffee, taking the day off work, or having great sex, when a woman indulges her desires she inflates her feminine power, and has an uplifting effect on everything and everyone around her.

To help you on your quest to revive your marriage, Mama Gena suggests a radical idea: that the community of women around us has a greater influence on the outcome of our relationship than the partner we choose. Women’s desires can turn dreams into reality, and when women gather together, their power multiplies exponentially. Mama shows you how to harness that power, and channel it into the daily acts that benefit your love life.

She includes dozens of exercises to help you and your Sister Goddess girlfriends focus on fun, praise yourself daily, let go of anger, and learn to appreciate the man you have. Then once you’ve started practicing these new behaviors, Mama trains you to train your husband: to communicate without rancor, to welcome your point of view, to reinstate the practice of lust and much more.

Mama Gena wants you to throw off the shackles of the Good Wife Syndrome and enjoy a marriage that’s free of guilt, blame and obligation. Mama Gena’s Marriage Manual will help you craft a partnership that enables you to do more, have more, be more than you could ever be on your own.