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3 Reasons to Ditch Your Resolutions

Whew. Wow. We did it.  
Welcome to a brand New Year, my darlings. 2017 is here. And so many of us are thinking– perhaps now, more than ever—about what to make of it.  
What do we want to accomplish, discover, create, become?

‘Tis the season, when we women are encouraged to fiercely scribble our resolutions, recommit to our goals, sign up for cleanses and challenges, and try try try try try, this time, for sure, really,  to muster the willpower to stay on track. 

But this year, I want you to ditch your resolutions. Throw them out. Let them go. 

Because, let’s be real: 

How does a resolution make you feel?
Momentary high?  
Then a swift deep dive into disappointment?
Not pretty.
And what is it, exactly, that happens to a resolution – that it very often stays unresolved?

Is there some kind of inner demon programmed to detonate a resolution in its frail tracks?
An incubus who sucks the life out of your resolve the moment you pass a sexy looking dessert cart at a party?
Or face an employer who intimidates you?
Or lose another hour of this precious life to refreshing Facebook . . . again?

I have good news.

It’s not your fault. You do not have a willpower deficiency. 

You – and all of us living in this culture – are deficient in a vital nutrient that we have been taught to overlook and ignore for centuries.  
The Feminine. 
We’ve been trying to fit a square peg in a round hole, for waaay too long. And the annual New Year’s resolutions craze is a perfect example. 

Whew.
So what is the alternative to the relentless striving that can result in the depletion of  every aspect of a woman’s self esteem?

I want to recommend a new kind of discipline.

A feminine approach to committing to what it is we desire in the year ahead.

Today, I want to share three truths about the feminine creative process, what get’s in the way, and how you might want to shift your perspective about what you’re up to in the gorgeous year ahead. 

#1: Logic is the enemy of creation. 


Seriously. Worse than kryptonite to Superman.
Logic is the enemy of the feminine. 
Logic is limiting.
It stunts growth and stifles a woman’s creativity.
Logic says no, you can’t, it is just not possible.
And your desire slowly begins to vaporize. And you are left with a shrug, an ‘oh well’ and an eerie sense of failure.

The truth is, there is nothing impossible for a woman who understands how to access her feminine power, and use her body, mind and soul to get what she wants.

Inside and well beyond the Mastery classroom, I’ve watched more women defy logic than I can count, bringing deep desires fruition, every storyline as brilliant and unique as the woman who lives them. It’s what I live for.

  • What made it possible for Ellen, who started a nonprofit to serve women, to be able to generate a huge revenue stream for herself and her foundation?
  • What had Barbara, at age 67, fall in love – for the first time in her life – with a beautiful man, who can’t stop buying her jewelry?
  • And how about Angela, who gave notice, with nothing on the horizon except an unnamable intuition, score one of the most highly sought gigs in the publishing industry, working with an icon, two days before her current job ended?
  • Or Lynda, who at the age of 46, gave birth to her healthy baby girl, after being told there was no way she could get pregnant?


As I have often described, your desires are the interface between you, and that which is greater than you.

A woman’s imagination and creation gets cut loose through her connection to her own pleasure.
Her connection to source.
Her plugging into the magnificence of the body woman.
And connecting all those magical circuits to Sisterhood.

(Wanna take these concepts deeper? We still have a few spots open at The Womanly Arts Experience, happening January 21st – 22nd in NYC. Join us!)

#2: Desires hate your deadlines. 


Culturally, we have not been taught to encourage or respect the native indigenous growth cycle, or gestational cycle, of a desire.

Some desires seem to happen almost instantaneously. Hooray!
But other desires have their own timeline and cannot be squeezed out quickly like a tube of toothpaste.

In fact, pushing too hard for results can destroy a desire.

The most truly deep, magical, soul-shifting and profound desires require somewhat longer gestation.

With no judgment, and no timer.

The nature of woman is to want to be the housing for the gestation of creation in so many different forms. Whether it’s bringing a new life into the world, or an idea into the world, or a book or a business or a poem or a work of art or an ambition.

The problem is, none of us were taught how to withstand the wait.

Or – lawd have mercy – savor the wait.

And if we do not enjoy the gestation of a desire, it not only slows down the progress of the desire, but it makes life very frustrating and unhappy.

You were born to gestate, and anything you can conceive of is on its way to you, as long as you think so and feel so.

#3: Your yearning is beautiful. 


As women, we have largely lost touch with the Art of Yearning, and the discipline to practice it.

Instead, when a woman begins to risk yearning for something, her next response is typically a feeling of loss or lack. She despairs that she does not have that which she yearns for.

This alters her ability to conjure what it is that she desires.
Why? Because loss conjures loss.
It is only gladness that conjures gladness.

I know it feels like such a huge, insurmountable step, when you are steeped in the life-sucking formaldehyde of the “stuck,” to crank up your own happiness, joy, and radiance. 

From that spot, your radiance seems like the she-devil, as it lives on the opposite side of the world as you know it. And the devil you know seems so lovely and safe in its predictable living death, no matter how much it fails to deliver you what you really want.

True yearning comes from a place of alignment and attunement, where a woman and her divinity are batting for the same team, where she knows her desires will be met, and her longing was a beautiful extension of her truth.

When a woman yearns deeply and effectively, she has no doubt that what she longs for is on its way to her, under grace and in perfect ways.

This year, I challenge you to adopt a feminine approach. 

  • List your desires, without judgment. No desire is too big or too small. And whatever you do, do not ask “How?”. 
  • Savor the pleasure of having those desires. Feel it, allow yourself to turn on as you imagine them coming to fruition. Yearn, darling. Yearn. 
  • Tell everyone what you desire this year. Gather a supportive community of women who will tell you, “And so it shall be, or something even better.” Brag about what you are gestating this year. 
  • Identify tiny, pleasurable steps in the fulfillment of your desires. And take them. Anything that is even in the realm of your desire, lunge at it.


So . . . what do you think? I’d love to hear from you in the comments. Tell me what you are desiring this year, how you’re savoring the privilege to yearn, and what your first steps on the path to creation are? 

Happy New Year! 

Love,

Regena_grey_sg190

Regena Thomashauer, aka “Mama Gena”
The School of Womanly Arts

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  • Luisa January 17, 2017, 8:26 pm

    My desires, to be happy, to love, to save, cut down on cost and debt, to start a business, to meet a man who loves me, respects me and who wants keep me company for as long as he is with me.

  • Dani January 13, 2017, 7:21 pm

    I desire to make money fulltime through my music ~ So I can make my own schedule and do what I love every single day!

  • Maria January 11, 2017, 2:07 pm

    I completely agree…too many of us forget the divine, creative feminine, and not even sure how to honor it so that it can serve us.
    It’s been so long, that most are not sure how to balance their masculine and feminine energy, and we find ourselves so depleted. But the pendulum is swinging from the masculine, and for a while like any pendulum, it will go to the other extreme, but for those that are part of the conscious shift, and aware like yourself, they will remember the importance of keeping the masculine equally in the picture. Good times are ahead, although they will not come easily. Like any laboring and birthing, there’s a discomfort, although even there, we can choose how to make it most comfortable with tools, awareness and actions.
    I personally love your alternate word for processing…”gestation”…mmmmmmmm…., perfect.
    The masculine is just as perfect to honor and remember. That masculine/feminine-ying and yang force is always at play, and keeping it balanced is where ultimate wisdom, peace, transcendence and bliss exist- although the law of energy doesn’t allow it to stay there too long, as there’s always growth that must continue while we’re visiting here.
    In my experience, for some people, this is the toughest part of the ride – for others its the actions- and for some, they forget to celebrate the ultimate creation that they brought to life.
    I’ve seen all of the above, and have personally experienced all of the above depending on where I’m at.
    Before the processing or gestation, comes the masculine force of conception – as in the action of planting the seed…and then allowing the process to unfold…trusting, nurturing, and visualizing how beautiful it will be when its finally here. And finally enjoying and celebrating our beautiful creation from the masculine/feminine dance. The dance between faith, action and patience.
    This came at such a good time for me, as I’ve been working on healing old challenges. This was a tough few days – but so timely. I kept trying to stay in the “process”, and trusting, although it was incredibly immobilizing and uncomfortable for me. Finally this morning, I had my breakthrough. And it was a blend of trusting and doing.
    I believe most of us will reconnect with our divine, innate feminine abilities, by simply remembering that we are infinitely powerful, creative forces. Its time for our feminine to shine its awesomeness, and the shift is here.
    This was a beautiful reminder for all of us (men included).
    Thank you!

  • Barbara Hanneloré January 9, 2017, 2:31 pm

    Wow, your words ring so true. To be able to STOP all the planning and pushing is to allow the feminine inspiration to come through! Yet it can feel so elusive – WHEN can I stop? Allowing ourselves that relief is such a huge gift.

  • January January 9, 2017, 11:36 am

    So I’m putting out in the World Wide Web my desires for this year:2017!
    Thanks MG and gathering goddesses. Woo hoo
    1. Healthy mind, body, and spirit.
    2. Beautiful, authentic, desired partnership in marriage with a beautiful Swede inside and out.
    3. Easy and effortless conception.
    4. Glowing, healthy, pregnancy and easy, orgasmic, touching Source natural birth.
    5. Healthy, happy twin babies.
    6. Live and thrive in Sweden with my wonderful partner and babies.
    May everyone’s desires manifest!

  • Anna Widing January 8, 2017, 12:04 pm

    Thank you! Soooo lovely to read this post at this very moment. After reading your fantastic book ‘Pussy-a reclamation’ I’m slowly shifting my whole world view and coming into -or opening up to- my feminine power in a new way.
    This post was so refreshing to read as a reminder. To me this new mind set is still fragile. I still have a tendency to push myself to hard in the old ‘masculine way’ and judge myself for not being ‘logical’ or ‘structured’ enough. Reading this snapped me out af that and helped me realize that my intuition to start my new projects this year with a new sense of ease is right. Trusting the process and my creative rhythms more. I already know what I need. Now I only need to allow myself to progress in my own, organic, pace and stand up for the right to do it that way.
    Thank you so much for your amazing and important work in the world. So inspiring and empowering!
    Now I’m focusing on allowing my desire to attend your school in the near future to bloom..Enjoying the gestation period completely.. 😉
    Lots of love from Anna in Sweden. 🙂

  • Yazmine January 6, 2017, 6:50 pm

    Beautiful message! I wrote down all my desires for this year of 2017 in a notebook! But I did make my desires VERY specific. Mama Gena I have to ask; “Can a desire be TOO specific?” Or is this me having a difficult time not asking “HOW?” Help! Ahah your wisdom means everything! And I’m SO inspired by all the desires I have read in this comment section! I’m very young but I have read your book Pussy- a reclamation I laughed, cried and marveled at the words. I truly believe it is a MUST read for all women 16 to 90 and beyond! Thankyou Mama Gena!

  • Sotiria January 5, 2017, 12:57 pm

    Thank you so much Mama Gen a! I felt such relief in your post, just as I was beating myself up for my intuitive decision this year, to NOT make any resolutions! And yet, doubting my own guidance, I was thinking of desires and age, boy how did THAT make me feel… you put words into every thought I had and you brought relief and a glimpse of hopeful smile on my Face!

    This year, I want to find a great partner, I want to fill up my juices, I want to leave my current job or carrier safely moving into a prosperous financial and nourishing life, and I want many happy moments with my loved ones, and feeling again the zest of life oozing from me, steadily! This year I want to feel happy, and free, and abundant, and loved♡

  • Wildcherry January 5, 2017, 10:02 am

    I yearn to set my voice free.
    Love you much, beautiful Regena and The Palace Goddesses xx

  • Liz Ronan January 5, 2017, 3:51 am

    Happy New Year Mama! Yes yes yes totally agree new years resolutions totally over-rated so this year I plan to simply be even more awesome than last year,end of story! Sorry to read your marriage to Bruce went sideways. The way of the Goddess isn’t always easy and you’ve signed up for a mammoth task. A man up to that will be a man amongst men in my belief. Keep up the wonderful work of the Goddess . She is sorely needed in these times. Blessed be xx

  • Stephanie Marrone January 5, 2017, 2:22 am

    I LOVE this! Thank you Regena and Happy New Year! I for one, so resonate with the feminine approach, and, again, you write with heart and soul and passion. Thank you beautiful one. I love you.

  • Lisa January 5, 2017, 12:19 am

    I’m desiring “shine bright like a diamond” huge success with my online magazine and sustainable lifestyle coaching business! I’m also desiring the neverending well of energy to overflow onto my beautiful family (the fuller I am, the more I have to give them) and my education non-profit. I desire getting into my Skinny Mommy jeans and finding that sultry boho chica vibe that gets pushed to the side when I am in a state of How vs. Bring it. I desire a strong empowered tribe of fierce women and men who want to serve and make the world better.

  • Linda Yablonski January 4, 2017, 8:49 pm

    My desire is to help people open to the possibilities of pleasure and joy in their relationships.
    Starting with myself coming back to NYC for the Mastery program in March!!

  • Caroline January 4, 2017, 7:25 pm

    I love every word of this blog post. Thank you for transforming my life through your wisdom and your truth! 😍

  • Anna Diaz January 4, 2017, 1:23 pm

    I’m cheering you on, Elizabeth! Go, go, go! Your desires are on their way to you.

  • Anna Diaz January 4, 2017, 12:50 pm

    My desires for this year are to get my blogs up and running and share my insights with the world. Also to build a fun, caring team to help share our healthy coffee and tea with the world. And to create a fundraiser for She’s the First and donate it along with some of my coffee proceeds. Donate at least $400 this year and be matched with an STF scholar!

  • Anna Diaz January 4, 2017, 12:43 pm

    Ah, finally someone who gets the way I think, and who articulates it so well! Deadlines make my eyes glaze over, and they do kill my desires, because they force me to have tunnel vision, which reduces the scope and shape of my vision. Interestingly, I used to try to force things, and I don’t anymore. I realized that I can’t, that like you say, our desires need time to gestate. And I’m pretty certain I’ll manifest so much more this way, because the gestation period is allowing me the time for things to percolate and gel.

    Oh, where do you get your wisdom and insight? It’s like an enormous breath of fresh air, and such a relief. FINALLY, FINALLY, someone who understands! You’re the midwife every woman needs!

  • Glitzy January 4, 2017, 8:41 am

    I need this right now. Thanks.

  • Elizabeth January 4, 2017, 4:06 am

    I desire to face my fears and leave my current career.
    I desire to begin my webinars.
    I desire to earn $15,000. each week.
    I desire to do 6 comedy shows this year.
    I desire to work from 10-3 M/T/Th/F so, I can pick my daughter up from school.
    I desire for my divorce to be finalized in March 2017 and to receive an abundant settlement.
    I desire to find the most perfect 4 BR at a perfect price near the A/B/C/D train.
    I desire to work out 3 x a week, eat healthy daily, and drink plenty of water.
    I desire to break ground on my wellness center for women this year.
    I desire to study public speaking, comedy writing, and gain back my confidence.
    I desire to stay in my turn on and let the universe guide me.

  • Lydia January 3, 2017, 11:08 pm

    Mama! This was exactly what I needed to hear today. No resolutions! I have so many irons in the fire at the moment, but what I realized after reading this email is that I’m gestating some beautiful creations. I’m about halfway through reading “Pussy” and am loving every word of it. All my life, I’ve lacked a female tribe and since I started reading this book, I’ve connected with some fabulous gals and we’re sharing about our lives, the hi’s and lo’s and everything in between. Thank you so much for the inspiration. Much love! Lydia

  • Ai January 3, 2017, 9:47 pm

    Yes ! I am all for that `ditching` and in fact before reading this , i was slightly starting to feel guilty about having no resolution or plans or goal for this year. I have never been a big fan of ridged planing but I thought i would do something different and be organised. So the past few years I had set up goals and journal often and was “studious”. This year, I felt very intuitive and my intuition told me that making goals make me feel “contracted” and didnt feel right on my body. So, I listened . Then came this post as if is was a confirmation saying ” you are doing the right thing girl” . So thank you Mama Gena, as usual for inspiring me follow my gut, feminine intuition. Love from Tokyo Japan

  • Amanda January 3, 2017, 9:20 pm

    Hi Mama Gena!
    Absolutely loved this article and I loved your book that just came out! I have been using some of the practices! This year I am desiring to continue training in my field of work and study with some of the best mentors in my field. I want to travel to Maine for KMI; I desire to take Shelley Kelly’s S Factor classes! And I desire to feel beautiful and confident in my own skin. I desire to come to your class in New York!! And I desire to build a community of sisterhood where we support each other in our growth! I also desire to find a hobby or activity I am passionate about and get into a relationship! I loved this article because I always associated yearning with not having it and I am going to view it differently now! My yearning is so strong! So so strong! And the steps I am taking for these desires is saving my money and preparing myself to be ready when the opportunity knocks! Thank-you for the inspiration and help! Love your work!

  • Georgie W January 3, 2017, 9:19 pm

    dear radiant Mama Geena,
    this message came in the Nick O’ Time ! I was just suffering in resisting the writing of structured biz plans for the biz I am in love with ( Stress Magic management using feminine advantage !) and while she is most certainly birthing from my soul, wrestling the logical and needed technical steps, by myself, is not working… but, if I invite and imagine loving and juicy help along the way ! if I can open to magical solutions sourced in my own pleasure & desires… I know [ and heck,I teach this stuff !! ] my outlook and results will change over night ; )
    oh I love that you love what you do, thank you,
    Gw

  • Rivky January 3, 2017, 5:27 pm

    I desire to get out of the depression im batteling for too long!!
    And i desire to take mama gena out to dinner!!!

  • Kim January 3, 2017, 4:21 pm

    Just wanted to say that I love this email about yearning. I am yearning to step into the next thing in my life….this yearning has been going on for a year or so. Not sure how the heck it is all going to materialize, but I am excited and overwhelmed at the same time. I made a leap years ago…leaving a career in engineering…to homeschool my 3 daughters. It was the most exciting, fulfilling, terrifying, exilerating, and exhausting thing I’ve ever done. Now 25 odd years later, they are finished and i am a bit lost. My guy suggested that I join him in his engineering business, but I have changed…it just doesn’t fit me anymore. I yearn to be my most juicy, beautiful, feminine, sexy self and help others in this incredible stage of their lives realize that this is possible. Over the last couple of years I have been slowly learning about the masculine and feminine, and my sexuality, far beyond anything I had known before. Thank you for this wonderful email….I am going to be pondering this.

  • Ana January 3, 2017, 2:22 pm

    Thank you mama gena! This message has given me a lot of hope. I realized I move to the same city as my boyfriend, but upon looking into it further, I realized visa requirements could make that desire impossible. Lately I’ve felt really beaten by this thought, but hearing your words, “and so it shall be, or better” have given me the strength to stand on my feet again. Thank you.

  • Simona January 3, 2017, 1:55 pm

    This advice came right on time!

  • Diane January 3, 2017, 1:16 pm

    This is so spot on, thank you for the inspiration! NYE, I found it difficult to sleep. I felt an excitement that I couldn’t explain and this helps me to understand. 2017!!!

  • Lindsay January 3, 2017, 1:14 pm

    Start with your intentions <3

  • Chere January 3, 2017, 12:51 pm

    Very timely! Today is the day I chose to go within and think about what I want for 2017 – then I open my email to this lovely post. Yes to living my life more and more in the feminine and choosing to go forward with my plans and goals in a more feminine way. YES to loving the yearning, and the waiting. YES to being ok with not knowing exactly how those yearnings might unfold. YES! Thank you, Regena! Happy New Year!

  • helen January 3, 2017, 12:47 pm

    Maria – nooo, who cares about how.. it’s like ordering in a restaurant
    you pick out what you want – be specific, imagining with all your senses that you are enjoying it already – and the waiter waltzes off to the kitchen to get your order done. You don’t race to the kitchen to see them making it up for you right? you’re at the table enjoying it coming…… as my space cadet friend always reminds me – if you asked the universe for something, and it hasn’t come right away – it’s like Sears, it’s on back order – remember – divine timing! xoxo (i type this so i remind myself!) 🙂

  • Maura Allard January 3, 2017, 12:32 pm

    Love this! I desire an extremely successful real estate year! I desire to enroll in coaching school. I desire to be debt free! I desire to finish renovating my home! I desire putting myself first so that I can be more present to others!

  • Elle Morgan January 3, 2017, 11:50 am

    Yes, Mama Gena, yes!

  • Linda Fairchild January 3, 2017, 11:34 am

    Exactly!!!! Though I made a tiny resolution. I refuse to watch one second of the inauguration. Feels awesome and frees up time to pull off a magical project that just came to me. Am following my feminine sprint as I guide the idea along gently. Tonight my friend comes over to receive her hardback copy of PUSSY. Had to wait for the second printing to arrive at the famous independent bookseller Book Passage in Corte Madera. I bought the e-version in September. The quality of the hardcover is dreamy!!!!! Really excited to give her the present.

  • Tiger Zane January 3, 2017, 11:28 am

    Oh Mama… your most recent blog about Resolutions was like a gorgeous sunrise after an endless, stormy, dark night! What a beautiful reminder… and because I chose this morning(I brag) to start the re-entry of work and school gently, I received it fully!

    I brag that I am sitting toasty and warm in my bed watching the day awaken over Mt. Rainer with a glowing blue sky!

    I brag that I am taking the morning to plan today’s teaching and relax instead of racing into appointments first thing.

    I brag that I’ve been pussifying my bedroom after my move last spring and have created a space that is becoming lovely and inspiring!

    I brag that I am listening to myself and feeling my pussy and she is responding!

    I brag that I am taking my 16 year old daughter to Paris this February for her first trip out of the country!

    I desire this year to incorporate a feeling of joy and adventure into my daily living and working!

    I desire to come to mastery again… with effortless and pleasurable financing and scheduling logistics!

    I desire to lovingly and gently return my body to her perfect weight! I desire to adore my body and release any obsessive thinking about my looks.

    I am so grateful for this morning, for you, for femininity, for the sunshine, for orgasms… and for LIFE!!!

    Love Tiger

  • Foxy January 3, 2017, 11:28 am

    Love, love, love this. Thank you, Regena! <3

  • Maria January 3, 2017, 11:25 am

    Thank you Mama Gena. My list 2017……….
    $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
    Travel Travel Travel
    Perfect Credit Score (declared bankruptcy 2013)
    Best Rewards Credit Card Ever! (for travel travel travel!)
    No Unproductive Debt
    My Best Tightest Firmest Body Ever

    so that’s the list……..however………how do I not get into the HOW it is going to happen yet identify the steps to its fulfillment?! Isn’t identifying the steps getting into the HOW TO?
    🙁 :-/ 🙂

  • Bria @ Mind Body with Bria January 3, 2017, 11:17 am

    Hmmmm, I am desiring a house in the peaceful, beautiful mountains. That my work teaching yoga, offering mind-body retreats, and Reiki feels fulfilling, pleasureable, and has a beautifully positive impact on myself and others. That my book deal and book writing come to easeful fruition. That I have grace, ease, sexiness, and deep connection with my love. I desire the perfect mix of community and rejuvenating solitude.

    To even allow myself to have these desires is a huge step for me. The old me would beat the life out of my own desires with logic. Poor girl, she didn’t know any better. Now we know better. Thanks, Mama Gena. So to articulate and yes, yearn…feels wonderful. First steps? Focusing on my pleasure and on sharing my desires with positive people in my life. Together, we will encourage one another and hold our dreams in one another’s hearts.

  • Jaimee January 3, 2017, 11:04 am

    Hey Mama Gena, I loved reading your e-news today. Since the Christmas hustle and bustle left me feeling so empty inside, I’ve been on a mission to just plain STOP all of the doing, planning, and pushing. It’s not my job to make everyone happy. So I’ve been telling everyone (and myself) that my New Year’s resolution is to simply RELAX… and to really understand what that even means. Every single moment when I feel anxious, stressed, nervous, etc, I desire to remind myself to let go. I desire to be calm, joyful and at peace. I am enough, I do enough, and life is meant to be enjoyed, not managed. Thanks for the reminder today that resolving to do more is the opposite of what most of us modern women need. We do too much as it is. And the funny thing is, the more I relax, the more I open myself up to receive gifts, love, peace from others. The more I relax, the more I give someone else the opportunity to be a blessing to me. I surely do hope this resolution can stick! LOL

  • briana January 3, 2017, 10:50 am

    Fuck Yeah! It’s about time I hear externally what I’ve felt internally! YEARNING….I’ve been told I “yearn too much”…..yet I knew (and thank you Mama for your beautiful validation) that it was impossible to “yearn to much”. My yearning brought me amazing sexual encounters, world travel and a fire in my soul that has catapulted me on a journey to my true self and true life. This year I have my sights on building a floating home for myself to have a space of my own while in the process of ending a relationship that hasn’t served me for years! I also AM connecting with my pussy more this year and am abolishing all the old feelings and views on it and move forward with her with love, no judgement and an eye to seeking pleasure with her! I’ve created “goddess” worthy outfits in my closet to make sure everything I wear is the epitome of ME! I’m opening myself to service opportunities and growth opportunities every chance I can so I can feel my way to a new more fulfilling career…5-10 year plan. Hoping in 10 years to move somewhere exotic (like Thailand) have a fabulous lover(s) and feel I am living my calling as my sensual goddess powerful self!

  • Diane Godfrey January 3, 2017, 10:45 am

    Thank you! Great way to start off the new year as a teacher- yearning for my feminine strength and operating from my core! What a great role model I will be! Bring on 2017 and all of my desires!

  • Alba M Romero January 3, 2017, 10:42 am

    I desire for my art career to flourish so that I can make a living out of my creative work. I desire to have a meaningful, passionate and committed relationship that leads to marriage and starting a family. I desire to become financially independent and wealthy. I desire to travel somewhere new this year. I desire to become more sensual and witchy.

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