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What Actually IS the Law of Attraction?

About a week ago, I posted my profile on an online dating site.
Wow, what a wild new world.
I jump on my computer in the morning and wonder—who contacted me?  Will I like him?  Will anyone fun ask me out?
Will anyone respond to my post?

It has been fun to see who has responded to my profile.
I have had quite a few interesting guys write to me and ask to meet me.
So far, there appears to be some mo in my jo.
One guy who wrote to me had even been to our Men’s Night event at Mastery a few times, which was great, and we went out for a drink last night and had fun.

I have a question for you.
Is online dating a place where we can see the “law of attraction” at work?
Or is it NOT the law of attraction, since we have to actually put our profiles online?
And what actually IS the law of attraction?
And is it real?
Does it really work?

The law of attraction is a concept that was articulated by Jerry and Esther Hicks, who channel a spirit called Abraham, and they use this as the basis of their teaching:

“Within the seed of your desire is everything necessary for it to blossom to fulfillment. And Law of Attraction is the engine that does the work. Your work is just to give it a fertile growing place in order to expand.” –Abraham

“Law of Attraction says, ‘That which is like unto itself is drawn.’ Which means vibrations are always matched. So as you experience the contrast which inspires the new idea within you, this new idea—this desire—whether it is a strong one or a soft one, is summoning unto itself proportionately. And as it summons, it is always answered. It is the basis of our Universe: When it is asked, it is always given. The confusion that humans feel is that they think they are asking with their words—or even with their action—and sometimes you are. But the Universe is not responding to your words or your action. The Universe is responding to your vibrational calling.” –Abraham

Now, I love this concept. I think that when you are happy and thrilled with yourself, you actually do draw incredible experiences towards you.
The part that frustrates me about it is this: I watch so many women who attack themselves for not attracting exactly the right guy or exactly the right job opportunity.
And worse still, I watch women who read about this law, and are left feeling that all they have to do is sit in a quiet room and concentrate on their desire, and that if they do that enough, the desire will knock on the door, and come to them, and they won’t have to make even the smallest effort or take the tiniest step towards making their dreams come true—it will just happen on its own when the vibration is right.

While the law of attraction is true true true, it is not the whole story. The whole story is that you have to love wherever you are, whatever it looks like, right now, to even begin to attract anything. Additionally, it is really important to demonstrate your willingness to go for your desire by getting up off your butt, and taking deliberate baby steps in the direction of your desires.

Women were born creatrixes.  We create life, wherever we shine our attention.  And the creation of life starts with a desire that then attracts a response from the world.  But each of us has to take an action to get up and move our butts right next to whatever it is that we desire.  Creation is active, attraction is passive.  And creation is so much fun—you are actually in the driver’s seat, taking pleasurable steps to close the distance between you and whatever it is you want, rather than simply sitting still and waiting for it to come to you.

For example, if I want to date, I can’t just sit home waiting for a wonderful guy to ring my bell. If I want to meet a wonderful guy, I have to put myself in the line of guy fire. Going online is a great step. There are many others, as well. Yesterday, I was walking through the park and I saw an elderly Chinese guy doing Tai Chi, shadowed by a younger man. I see them practicing together every day. It is beautiful. I stopped to talk to them, and the young man invited me to join them in the park tomorrow and do Tai Chi with them. Now, that was not an experience I attracted, it was an experience I created. I took the baby step, I said hello, I risked talking to these guys. It was the law of attraction, coupled with my action in the direction of my desires that led to the wonderful invitation.

What do you think?
How do you use the law of attraction in your own life?
Do you even believe it exists?
Respond below, and let me know what you think.
And if you like this blog, please share it with your friends.

With so much love and pleasure,
Mama Gena

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  • lei January 5, 2014, 5:59 am

    I love Abraham, Jerry and Esther. Because of them, I attracted my daughter, my first child, who is due any day now. I practiced “segment intending” recommended by them, and it was during my very first session, I had a very enlightening and amazing vision of my daughter. At the time, I was going through an intense and emotional break up with my ex-fiance, my daughter’s father, and prayed for my spirit to intervene and help me endure the pain and then my daughter appeared. I thought I was being reborn. After 9 months of pregnancy, I have healed and feel as if I have in fact been reborn. My daughter saved me, and allowed me to reconnect to my higher power. Her love and light and complete connection to source fuels me to stay on track with mine. I love myself in such a way that it led me to your site, and so here we are. Thank you.

  • Paula June 13, 2012, 1:36 pm

    Regena – you have really nailed it here. I’ve been a follower of Abraham via Hicks for years. Six months ago I decided to concentrate on the relationship (not the man) I wanted. I knew I had to BECOME my fair share of that right relationship first (vibrationally), before being able to attract the other half. So I was “working” on that and really enjoying. Just for fun (and truly without expectation) I joined (my first dating site ever). I received numerous viewings and emails and was just having fun with it. A few weeks later, the man I’m now realizing is an ideal “other half” messaged me. It’s been 6 months now and we are in that wonderful first phase of falling for each other. Thanks to Abraham, I never doubted it for a minute – and now it’s a reality. I have used the Law of Attraction to allow the right mate to come into my life. And it felt effortless. YaHOOOO. Life can really rock!

  • SG Marcelle McGoddess June 5, 2012, 2:46 pm

    Happy Venus Transit! what a perfect time to get in receiving mode and allow the extra energies and love vibes from Venus (female) to be carried by the solar rays (male) of our Sun to bless us all with a bit more of the Divine Feminine! xoxo

    (in NY/NJ this occurs from 6-6:30pm tonight but we will be celebrating all week at Bella Buddha Yoga with Kundalini Crystal Chakra bowls, a juicy Sister Circle, and a chakra playshop…if you are in the Jersey Shore area, come play with us!)

  • Robyn May 31, 2012, 9:40 am

    As one who has tried sitting at home waiting for the doorbell to ring and realizing the only man to show up was the Sushi delivery guy, I applaud your courage to get out there. Not that I had any doubt about you Regena…your Mastery course has changed my life! No more sitting at home for me…I’m out there fishing for my sushi in person! You are an inspiration!

  • Shakaya May 30, 2012, 9:47 am

    For me and my iconic clients, it’s all about ALIGNMENT.
    I feel this is why so many women cannot release extra weight, fully embody their beauty, make enough $$ or call in The One…
    Because they start off from a place of less-than.

    Mama said it right, we are the Creatrixes and we have the power to co-create with the Divine.

    With this amazingly sensual, brilliant and confident energy that is wholly ours, we bring so much to the table. We bring the calm. We bring the wild. We bring the possibility. We bring the flirt. The tease. The adventure. We bring that divine rock-star, that cosmic creatrix.

    We bring our dreams to the surface and live the life we love to live.
    And it begins with being in Alignment with our Desires.

  • julia May 30, 2012, 7:05 am

    so true Regena it works, i also doing dating site, it’s wonderfull cause when i start dating this guy from KZN, he call me everyday 24/7 and we arange to meet soon. we’ve charting almost 3months know and i can’t wait to see him and the feelings that i have for him overflowing. we send also each other fotos. it’s very interesting and it’s true don’t sit there to expert everything is going to sort it self no way
    thank so much to tell us, what going on in our lives, i believe everything that you say.

  • Julia May 29, 2012, 9:07 pm

    I can testify that I met the most amazing guy at the lowest point of my life so far, but kicked down by life I made the most of it, and went out on the (small) town! I am so greatful for the men I dated that didn’t work out, because I learned and grew with each of them, and it helped me recognize and receive love when it dropped in my lap! I had just become so right with being single! And I could not deny the surprise if this love I wasn’t even consciously creating… I was just living my life, creating things -many of which didn’t work out, but were my path to this beautiful space I’m in now. Yes, we must stay in the game of our own enjoyment and be active in our pursuits, and magnetize our attractions…and surrender, of course to the joyous journey as she unfolds the magic we could never even dream of…

  • Leah Fisch May 29, 2012, 7:11 pm

    I love that you say Law of Attraction is not the whole story, and give a tool to complete us where we are. Hard, but so true!

  • Deborah Smith May 29, 2012, 6:33 pm

    Dear Mama and all you Magnificent Sister Goddesses,

    There have been so many insightful things said here today.

    Do I believe in “The Law of Attraction”?
    Yes and No. I have to see it within the larger context of:
    1) A negative thought is 9 times easier to think than a positive thought. &
    2) A positive thought is 100 times more powerful than a negative thought.
    If I didn’t have these additional bits of education, I would be absolutely paralyzed for fear of the power of my negative thoughts.

    How do I use the law?
    Never thought about this before. Generally I just get out and go for what I desire. If it’s big and new I will break down the task to baby steps so that I don’t feel overwhelmed.
    Where I get tripped up (as Mama Gena noted) is mentally and emotionally beating myself up terribly when I get into emotionally and physically risky situations. SG Lovey Rita B gave me a clue that the answer to this problem lies in my perspective: I need to see these happenings as chances to refine my choices and discover what and who I really am. All the while practicing being SUPER kind and gentle to myself in my own head and heart (seems to be one of my loudest and most consistent lessons these days).

    I have found the most crucial part is what Mama Gena noted: that the key to my desires being manifest into the physical world is to being absolutely happy in the moment and space that I am in. I am a Mistress of creating and pushing, but the Universe is consistent in reminding me of when I am too attached to a specific outcome by withholding said manifestations until I am feeling completely content with how my life IS. I have experienced this interplay so many times that I am grounded in the trueity of this reality.

    As to finding the right guy: I feel another BIG part of it for me is what Mama brought up a few weeks ago; that I have to imagine the fun and pleasure I want. Reading that was a huge AHHA moment for me, as it was so clear how completely unfair it is to any guy to have a shopping list of traits I want to find in A man. What incredible pressure that puts on a person.

    Reading all of the entries has also made me realize that there are still moments- ‘dark corners of my brain” -where I do not truly trust the beneficence of the Universe. This is a reality of me to which I need to pay attention. Possible I don’t trust myself. Either way, I know I will be given all of the help and guidance I need to bring the bright light of real love and trust into those dark places.
    So, yes, I do believe that the Universe is consistently answering to our desires. Much like a tree, or flower grows to bless us with its beauty and fruit: we plant the seed (or the sapling). we till, fertilize, water and weed and the Universe does the rest.
    Thank you so much for the posting, the replies and the asking.

    PS: Mama Gena,
    You know, when I heard about Miami in November I so wanted to go that I bawled when I found your Boot Camp Early Bird offer. Tuition is paid, now for a flight and a room!!

  • Veronica Vulvanica the Bellydancer May 29, 2012, 5:44 pm

    First of all: smoking hot picture of you! That lil’ bench you were sitting on must’ve been having hot flashes.

    Secondly, I LOVED this blog — I have experienced each approach presented here trial-and-error style, individually instead of collectively. Especially during my IC.

    Just desiring without acting — stank!
    Just creating crankily, without finding where I was exactly right — no good!
    So a hodgepodge of these seems to be the pink sacred key.

    Ooooooooommmmm! Can’t wait to share this blog, thanks R! ♥

  • SG Artemis May 29, 2012, 5:16 pm

    I have felt for a long while that what you provide so expertly in your Mastery program is a method of phrasing that allows the Law of Attraction to better and more specifically be applied to the world of dating and getting juiced up creatively.

    It is funny to me that this entry seems the first time that you have mentioned the Law of Attraction in your blog. To me, your work and ways you share of orienting and directing vocabulary and phrasing and mind set about emotions… go naturally in symbiosis, hand in hand with the teachings of Abraham-Hicks and the Law of Attraction.

    As a long time Law of Attraction attractor and manifester, I feel that the tools you offer indeed do help me orient and stay longer in my Vortex.

    Thank you for this blog entry. To me, it felt like you had already written this. Huggles, Mama Gena. <3

  • Alay'nya Dancer May 29, 2012, 4:18 pm

    How very wonderfully and gloriously true, dear Mama Gena!

    First off, hats off and a big round of applause to you for courageously posting your profile (you who are so “high profile” already!), and for writing about your experiences. What a great thing to share!

    And even more blessed to link your experiences in – right away -to making this a “practicum” in using the “Law of Attraction.” I absolutely love how you are approaching this – you are giving a universe-full of women direct and positive examples of how to put the “Law of Attraction” into practice; how to “hold” this Law (understand it in a very direct and meaningful and practical way), and to experiment, and to take note on the results. This is just like chemistry lab, only lots more fun!

    Many blessings to you and to all others who are putting the “Law of Attraction” into practice in your daily lives, and blogging about your results!

  • Lori Randall Stradtman May 29, 2012, 3:32 pm

    Mama Gena, I simply love your emphasis on getting off one’s butt!! If one truly believes, they ACT on it! Well said!!

  • Vikki May 29, 2012, 3:19 pm

    This is powerful and I am living it! What resonated with me is: “You have to love wherever you are, whatever it looks like right now.” For me that translates to: “Gratitude + Desire + Belief = Manifestation!” Love it Mama Gena!

  • Luxurious Laurie May 29, 2012, 3:11 pm

    Angela says it well too!

    • Angela May 29, 2012, 5:44 pm

      Thanks Laurie! I like the way you said it, too! 🙂

  • Luxurious Laurie May 29, 2012, 3:10 pm

    The Law of Attraction does not guide you not to act; it guides you to act only from a place of inspired action, which can be achieved through feeling good and experiencing things that give one pleasure…or in any other way that releases resistance, such as meditation. That is the place from which action should be taken…from a place of inspiration, not resistance. The LoA never instructs not to act…only not to act when there is no inspiration, because then the results will be less than desirable.

  • Angela May 29, 2012, 2:59 pm

    In my understanding, it’s a combination of being in a good place vibrationally and then taking actions out of pure inspiration.
    If you just force yourself to take actions in spite of feeling grumpy, you’re going to keep getting results that make you even more grumpy!
    But if you cultivate a good mood, you’re going to be naturally inspired to take actions that are a match to how you feel!

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    • SG "Infinite Paths Wolf" May 31, 2012, 9:41 am

      This delighted me so much that I copy & pasted it into my journal : )
      to read & re-read when I need the reminder. Thanks

    • SG Marcelle McGoddess June 5, 2012, 2:43 pm

      receiving is the Yin, the Divine Feminine, and exactly what is being amplified through the Venus Transit this evening my sistahs…for those of you in the NY/NJ area, join with me tonight from 6-6:30 in receiving love, truth, beauty, artistic pleasure, and creative vibes from the feminine planet of Venus!!!

  • Daniele May 29, 2012, 1:45 pm

    Interesting, as I’ve been in a Law-of-Attraction-in-Action weekly group since the end of December. The one thing that our host believes (and I concur) is that you won’t get what you want unless you deal with limiting beliefs. And those limiting beliefs will come up as you really put together a strong vision. So i’m just putting this out there as an adjunct to what you wrote, as I believe it to be true. Oftentimes someone might be using “law of Attraction” and nothing happens because they are not completely congruent. There is some unconscious belief getting in their way. You need to see this barrier and deal with it–reprogram it. Then, your wish is your desire. Just my contribution to the subject. Does anyone concur? Thanks for writing about it. It seems to be a very hot topic/practice these days. Anyway, I am grateful to the teachings I am getting in this group, as they “don’t mess around”. You really are led to see what is going on on many levels. We are also reading “The Nature of Personal Reality” by Jane Roberts (a Seth book).

    • Jayne June 3, 2012, 2:01 pm


      That’s one way of going about it, but why work so hard if you don’t have to?

      The belief that you have to “deal with limiting beliefs” is in itself a limiting belief. Prevalent in our culture is the exaltation of “hard work”. Pleasure is looked down upon. Since the Law of Attraction is working every moment, consider changing your thoughts and have it even easier?

      As a creator, you get to decide what it is you want think. Take someone’s thought as a jumping off point and take it wherever you want to go.

      Observe the thought. Does the thought work for you? Does it make you feel lighter or heavier? There’s a belief that lies are heavy and truth is light.
      If something is “unconscious” then by its very nature, you will not be able to consciously access the unconscious, so its an exercise in futility.

      Einstein says that no problem can be solved with the same consciousness that created it. Tony Robbins talks about the importance of asking good questions, for example phrase questions that work positively for you: “What would it take for me to attract the love of my life?” Seed your minds to do the work subconsciously. A type of question you would not want your mind to work on is “Why can’t I find what I want? What is the limiting thought here?”

      For one, that is not a pleasurable question. “I don’t have what I want and in order to get it, I am going to have to uncover to limiting beliefs.”

      Law of Attraction is always at work; observing that you don’t have what you want is attracting exactly that: I don’t have what I want. AND, this is not what you want! 🙂 You want to be rejoicing in having what you want, so start observing others having it, imagine yourself having it, and viola, you’ll begin to attract more of it.

      I think you’ll agree that the barriers are pretty obvious and aren’t unconscious at all. When you feel bad about any topic, that’s your barrier. Then you talk yourself up the scale and use your beautiful mind to think better feeling thoughts, then in that moment you are changing your life. Everything is happening in this red hot moment. It is the life that flows through you that is the most important thing, not the manifestation of what you want at some later date in time.

      This group that “doesn’t mess around”, are they fun to hang out with? It seems very masculine, nothing inherently wrong with that energy, except that it is action-oriented versus the way of the feminine and simply allowing your good to come to you without justifying how much hard work went into it. A tree just sits there and receives all it needs from the sun and the rain. What a lazy tree! 🙂

      Let the boys pound their chests while you sit back and triple your returns by not trying at all. Be a lazy tree and let the breeze brush your hair and the sun shine on your face and simply feel the joy of being alive.

      No need to concur.

  • SloopyOnnaHarlee May 29, 2012, 1:32 pm

    Mesdames….the action one takes on behalf of one’s desires is…..INTUITIVE action.
    You do not just act for the sake of acting, which is usually fruitless and unpleasant and leading to blank walls and blind alleys…you pleasurably focus on what you want as if it already exists, then you follow your Pussy, as usual!!! Pussy is never wrong….you follow any and all of Her
    “irrational” promptings to go here, do this, do that, call them, etc…and voila, the path to your fulfillment is illuminated! So “taking action” is not just pounding the sidewalk, no, never. Goddesses do not pound sidewalks…we follow the magic path of our Pussy!
    Cheers, chocolat, et champagne……

  • Jayne May 29, 2012, 1:01 pm

    The Law of Attraction is active every moment. It is working when you are sitting in your bedroom daydreaming about the love of your life and feeling fantastic and when you are on a date with some dork and feeling frustrated. Everything in your world is your creation. If you don’t like it, turn the other cheek and look at what you really want, talk only about what you really want, imagine it and feel the feelings of having it.

    The key to getting what you want is not the activity you are doing, but how you are feeling in the moment of that activity. That’s what Abraham calls “getting into the Vortex”. The vortex is the space where you are purposefully creating what you want and you know it because you feel good.
    However, there are many levels of good feelings. Going from depression about not having love to anger about that I deserve love and deserve to be treated with respect feels good.

    You can attract the love of your life easier and quicker by chilling out and loving, like just petting your pussy cat versus talking to every guy you meet and being a desperate, demanding woman on a mission. Let the Law of Attraction work for you. You do not have to work for it. Get out of the way and enjoy who you are and let the magic and the faeries of the Universe surprise and delight you.

    Life is supposed to be fun! Relax and enjoy it and yourself. You are amazing!

  • T. L. Cooper May 29, 2012, 12:39 pm

    Excellent post! I love the idea of creation coming out of the law of attraction! When we seek to create the life we want, we are active participants in our own lives. Often it is easy, though, to get so caught up in the law of attraction that we miss the reality we need to face. I’ve been guilty of this and have had to deal with the consequences. What we sometimes forget is that the other people around us are also attracting and creating their lives. When people attract and create incompatible experiences, relationships can suffer. This can be a sign it’s time to move on, or it can be a sign we’ve become so absorbed in our own lives we’ve missed an opportunity to grow with someone.
    Sometimes what we attract/create in our lives doesn’t make sense at the time, but every experience is an opportunity to grow into our best selves. I believe this is why people give up on the idea of the law of attraction and on creating the life they want. Sometimes it even appears as something we don’t think we want in our lives, but the lesson is there if we embrace it…
    That said, I must admit having read The Secret and The Power, I do, at times, struggle with the concept of the law of attraction. I believe in many ways it’s about perception. When we spend our lives focused on the negative, it seems like our lives have nothing good in them. When we spend our lives focused on the positive, we see the positive more easily and can embrace the good in our lives more readily.
    This can be blinding, though. I missed some signals that could’ve been opportunities to grow together rather than to grow apart and then lose sight of each other in an important relationship because I was so focused on the positive I couldn’t see the problems developing. Perhaps that’s the journey I’m meant to take…

  • Kaz May 29, 2012, 11:54 am

    As a believer in the “law of attraction” and a fan of “The Secret”, I can say this works in the world of love. Having had several dismal failed relationships, where I focused on what I wanted in a mate, I finally said “Forget it! What makes me happy?” I soul serached and heart journied and arrived at all the things that gave me pleasure that I hoped for in my future- and no man was listed. One month later Prince Charming dropped in. Perfect for me in every way. So it was focusing on me and me alone that made me a perfect match. the Universe heard what I wanted and did the rets of the work, bring ing me a partner to compliment my life and in turn, complimenting his too.

    • SG Marcelle McGoddess June 5, 2012, 2:40 pm

      thank you SG Kaz for this reminder…to just be so in love with “me” that the perfect man will just show up at the perfect time as I align with all that I find delicious in this life! I am accepting new invitations and walking through open doors but not doing the on-line thing as my intuition has guided me not to…and my Inner Goddess is always so brilliant when I take the time to listen to her!!! xo

  • Carol May 29, 2012, 11:30 am

    Becoming a vibrational match to what it is you want to attract, that is the key. How to become a vibrational match to what you’re asking for, that is the work. And it starts with what you are thinking. Every thought has a vibrational frequency felt as an emotion, and every emotion attracts, whether it’s wanted or unwanted. Being mindful of your feelings
    without judgement is the starting point. And we only learn by doing! Abraham is a great guide but will say that words don’t teach, doing does. Being mindful and paying attention to feelings is an action!

  • Mary Lou May 29, 2012, 11:20 am

    I believe works – I conjured the arrival of 75+ Sister Goddesses to Paris in May 2013!

  • Becky May 29, 2012, 11:15 am

    I have been submerged in Abraham Hicks stuff for about three months now, I’ve been getting the daily fluff for few years, in these last months I’ve so felt the essence of Abraham in Mama Gena’s words. Then today here its mentioned. Wow..
    The Universe is so good!
    SG Becky xo

  • SG Lovely Rita B May 29, 2012, 11:11 am

    Oh yes I believe the Law of Attraction exists BIG TIME! I know SO many things that have come sailing into my life I attracted. Yes, you need to step up and into some experiences, to allow the universe to put it all together for you.
    I found my honey Harold online-I had some fun dates and some interesting experiences before him. These experiences just provided “contrast” for me, to be clear on what I wanted and did not want-what was yummier and what could be left on the plate. Everything that happens allows me to make a better choice-feel a better vibration-and then be grateful as all get out for it all.

    Love you Mama! See you at the SG Weekend in November! It still thrills and scares me that I signed up.

    • regena May 29, 2012, 1:31 pm

      can’t wait to meet you, rita!

    • SG Marcelle McGoddess June 5, 2012, 2:38 pm

      Good for you SG Rita!!!

  • SG Mercedes May 29, 2012, 11:10 am

    Attraction…. and the other part of the coin, creation. A perfect balance of two beautiful and powerful energies, as giving and receiving. Most times that magic occurs is when the two are in perfect alignment and harmony. At least that is how I have experienced those magical and miraculous events in my life. I have been in a state of harmony in attracting AND creating my good. And it is PLEASURE of the highest order!!!!!
    Enjoy Tai Chi tomorrow!!
    As “coincidence” my hubby just started taking tai chi classes with a master.
    Love and Blessings galore to you Regina!

  • Nadia May 29, 2012, 10:53 am

    I think the key is in the following quote by Abraham: “Your work is just to give it a fertile growing place in order to expand.” Sitting in your room waiting for something to appear isn’t exactly creating a fertile growing place. Approaching two men in a park practicing Tai Chi, is. Good for you, Mama Gena, for knowing how to spread the fertilizer! 😉

  • Kristen May 29, 2012, 10:40 am

    Love it Regena! Thanks for sharing. Creation + Attraction. The biggest way I’m using this is as a reflection. It’s often hard for me to know what vibration I’m resonating at in the world until I sit down to reflect on the patterns of what and who has shown up. It’s kinda in a blindspot until then. But you know what they say about mirrors…Can’t wait to hear about your online dating experience. We should compare notes sometimes. Staying in the the feminine in the online world is an entertaining game 🙂 And forcing me to redefine “feminine”. *xo*

    • regena May 29, 2012, 1:35 pm

      that is so well captured, kristen!