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Are you pissed you don’t have what you want?


When you have a deep desire, what do you do?

Are you thrilled to be filled with yearning?
Do you enjoy that delicious feeling of wanting?
Or do you focus, instead, on the pain of not having what you want?
Are you pissed that you don’t have what you want?

Do you curse the heavens that you do not have the hot, rich boyfriend?
Or punish the universe with your unhappiness since you do not yet have the impressive job with the seven-figure salary?
Do you weep or rejoice every time you see a random woman pushing the baby stroller you wish was yours?

It is so frustrating and so discouraging when you can’t seem to get what you want. And sometimes whatever you do, it seems you just cannot get any traction.
You light candles and say prayers. You write down lists and lists and lists of desires. You do affirmations all day. You read books about the law of attraction.
And nothing.  Nada.  Zip.

MEOLA-174Desires. We all have them. We are filled with them. Ever-unfolding.
And there really, really is a way to make your desires into your reality.
There is an element that alters the game of longing. And no one ever gives us the crash course in that. Until now.

Did you catch my blog from last week? Good, if you did. If not, read it now.
It’s a blog about light, and how important it is to turn yours on.

Once you get yourself rekindled, you can read the rest of this. The rest of it won’t make sense unless your home fires are burning.

Your choice to light your light is the price of admission into the game of desire.
If you remain turned off and cranky, you will never ever get what you want.
In fact, disapproval of anyone or anything, even (and especially) yourself, immediately vaporizes a desire.

Once you have got your light lit, then the next ingredient that adds extraordinary, almost miraculous velocity to a desire, is Sisterhood.  Community.
There is no way you cannot get what you want when you plant that desire in a sea of Sisterhood. (Which is the whole purpose of the Worldwide Sister Goddess Weekend in Miami.)

Once you learn the intoxicating combo of actually enjoying your desires–because you fill each of them with your light–and then you add the element of Sisterhood, you have the most perfect growing conditions for the manifestation of desires.
And I want women to learn this.
I need women to learn this.
Because if every woman knew that planting her desire in a community of Sisterhood would alchemically result in the activation of her desire, we would have a real urgency for International Sisterhood to be created.
It would be in all our best interests. Which, it actually is.

Imagine with me…a world where women supported women, in getting what they wanted.
Women standing for one another’s desires.
Women reflecting each other’s light, back and forth, to one another.
Women living their dreams.

I make it really easy for women to experience and practice this necessary step, in the Worldwide Sister Goddess Weekend in Miami, by organizing a group of 500+ women, united in their desire to live Pleasure Revolutionary lives, who bring their most glorious and outrageous desires and plant them inside this bubbling cauldron of Sisterhood.
We always begin the weekend in the same way. Friday night, we gather in the Miami Convention Center and start celebrating each other’s desires.  Writing them on the walls, on banners, and Post Its.
The inevitability of Desire is proven again and again and again as the weekend unfurls, and in the days, weeks, and months that follow.
It begins in Miami.

But, with these elements intact, you can make it happen anywhere.
If you are not coming to Miami this year, join us anyway.
Gather your own group of Sister Goddesses. Bring your desires. Stand in your radiance. Celebrate each other.
And experience the magic of woman, Unleashed.

I’d love to hear from you. Post in the comments below:
What are your most deeply held desires?
How can you plant your desires inside a supportive community of women?

With so much love & pleasure,


P.S.  For those of you interested in health and wellness, my dear friend and guest teacher of Mastery, Dr. Christiane Northrup, is unveiling a new course called “Embodied Wisdom: Decoding the Mystery of Vibrant Feminine Health”. I thought I’d share about it with you in case you’re interested.  As you know, I love her and her work.

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  • elide beltram PhD October 29, 2013, 8:03 am

    Sister Goddesses, I may be placing this announcement in the wrong place but this interview is so important for us to understand what happens to the brain when we fall in love or during ORGASM. “PLEASURE AND REWARDS: how the brain habituates to falling in love”. Wedn. Oct. 30 12 noon est on with Sister Goddess Dr. Elide’ Beltram (micetto) and neuroscientist cand. Ph.D. Nan Wise from the Orgasm Lab in the Neuroscience Dept at Rutgers University.

  • Alay'nya October 22, 2013, 2:43 pm

    Dear Mama –

    Great minds think alike.

    I’ve been working with (and through) EXACTLY the same stuff – and my recent blog chimes in on the same topic.

    Oddly enough, even though I – like you – have found myself in “masculine overdrive” far too often – what I’m finding important now is to embrace that aspect of my masculine that is the “Protector and Provider” – the one that works long-term and strategically – and the one who creates and makes safe the environment for our soft, warm, winsome feminine side to emerge.

    Please enjoy:

    Dealing with our internal “Emperor” and our internal “Pleasure Goddess” (that which you extol so well) is a high level skill – a LIFE MASTERY skill – and it is never easy, even for the best of us!

    So keep on doing what you’re doing, sharing what you’re sharing, and I LOVE WHAT YOU DO!!!

    warmest best wishes – Alay’nya
    Author, “Unveiling: The Inner Journey” – currently with twenty 5-star Amazon reviews

  • Sherrie Huckelberry October 20, 2013, 12:33 am

    Omgoddess, this blog has shed light on how I have been shooting myself in the foot in creating my desires. I have been so focused on trying to GET my desires met ,that my light has grown dim in the trying. And not displaying all that I have accomplised. Wake up call…thank you all for being willing to have the courage, beauty n grace to share n show up in the world as your trueselfs. I am going to pull out every certificate every professional licsense I hold and display them with a sense of gratitude..time to turn myself on and get on with life again.

  • Liliana Sacarin October 19, 2013, 11:20 pm

    Thank you sooo very much Regena, to have once again instigated into the heart and depth of light and desire!

  • Liliana Sacarin October 19, 2013, 11:19 pm

    I desire to keep my light turned on in the face of any challenge and feed the light with my self-love, my self-approval, self-treasuring, my unleashed sensuality, my unleashed womanhood. I desire to be radiating my light soooo confidently that no one can resist, and especially B. I desire to feel sooo self-assured that my fear of betrayal and betrayers extinguishes – then it is me only me who can betray myself!
    I desire abundance in love, sex, health, ease, joy, pleasure, friendships and connection wherever I turn my light towards. I desire to move into our common house and live with B, happier than I could have ever imagined! I desire to enjoy my life in the meantime till the perfect time comes for this delicious desire. I desire that in the meantime my light grows stronger, more radiant and becomes inextinguishable!

  • Simone October 19, 2013, 9:40 pm

    Great post, thank you! Abundance, abundance, abundance in all aspects of my life!

  • Catherine October 18, 2013, 12:32 pm

    Thank you, Mama Gena. I found out about you through Danielle LaPorte’s Desire Map work, so I’m gonna have to thank her too!

    This is very timely for me too, both this post and the previous one on Light. It’s been difficult for me to keep my Light on because I’ve had a broken arm for the last 6 weeks and feel as helpless, but not quite as adorable as, a newborn kitten, although since the cast has come off and I’m in a splint instead, I feel more like the turtle who’s lost her shell – vulnerable, defensive, paranoid about my wrist being touched. I see it affecting the people closest to me too, which is the worst part.

    However, you have reminded me that my desires are more like a state of being, and I just have to look in different places to fulfil it instead of my usual places (mainly involving motorbiking and cooking!), and be open to it all.

    Thank you.

    • Sherrie Huckelberry October 20, 2013, 12:57 am

      I just went thur this trauma this past summer. And as a masage therapist ,bodyworker ect…. the learning curve for this was challenging…and I would encourage you trust your personal boundries around this process of healing. I am very clear with my boundries with others now. And am able to tune into my own needs with a heightened sense of awareness. Cast the shell aside n know you are a SG,powerful, loveing,compassionate,and full of so much selflove that you light up the world simply by being here….

      • S.G. little jo November 17, 2013, 12:29 pm

        Great reply. Trust our personal boundaries and being clear about it with the others is a great part of feeling more secure not to be hurt because we didn’t say, because we didn’t know nor ask oneself before. A huge pace to be respected for what you truly are, and not what people want you to be (nice). Thank you Sister Sherrie I send you a bucket of rose petals smelling delicious…

  • Lisa October 16, 2013, 2:06 pm

    I’m in a female oriented business and I find that women are so culturally conditioned to tend to EVERYONE but themselves, even their grown children, it’s like they’re afraid to WANT AND DESIRE for themselves, almost like they fear the pleasure. That’s why this is such an important movement and treat every woman should take for herself. Ladies get whatever aspect of the Womanly Arts curriculum you can afford and make your life so you can afford it. You will never be the same and all for the better.

  • Laura Jacobs October 16, 2013, 6:26 am

    Since Mastery I have shifted from a doubter to a believer.!!!!!
    Regena so far I
    Look 10 years younger,feel juicy again,see life as mine for the taking instead of a victim,let go of relationships that don’t work.have more confidence in myself,deepened my relationships with close friends,have a whole new wardrobe where I feel sexy,move my body in ways I never thought possible,and of course my new favorite word MORE.My light shines so much people think I am in love and ask what I am doing. I send them your way.

    • SG Lovely Rita B October 16, 2013, 10:42 am

      You rock Philly!

  • Michaela October 15, 2013, 11:22 pm

    Oh my word, thank you. I didn’t get that I wouldn’t have access to my desires if my light wasn’t on. This seems logical once I’ve digested it. Here I come again! Thank you so much Mama for helping us to rekindle our flames. Needed!!!!!!!! xoxo

  • Katia October 15, 2013, 10:39 pm

    Lately I have found that I am not just angry with people (men especially) and situations but really angry with myself. I realized this more so from recently reading a chapter on anger in one of Mama Gena’s books. I feel like it is trying to completely rewire my mind and heart to rid myself of the anger and start taking in pleasure. Especially with men because if I don’t make some major changes I am going to end up never being in a relationship. I’m a work in progress as many things are way out of my comfort zone but I have found that when I apply just a fraction of some things Mama Gena recommends I feel really good about myself. Even just reading the book and articles just makes me feel better. To share some good news that happened to me: Recently I found out about a program at my college that sends you out to tutor children to read in elementary schools. I wanted to do this so, so much and because I didn’t have the confidence in myself I felt I had blown the interview (as they only take so many students). Later I emailed the professor to let her know how much I wanted this and told everyone I came in contact with all about it. I found out today that I got in! I will actually be doing something I really want to do. Mama Gena your words and thoughts have been some of the most inspiring and helpful advice for me. Thank you so much for this and so many other articles, it is very much appreciated!

  • Suzanne Bonham aka "kitty kitty" October 15, 2013, 1:26 pm

    Hi Regena!! Thank you for posting this! I have a client – this was my very first client I ever attracted when I decided to have a hands-on, creative way to make a living. I’ve known her for 9 years. She and her husband have two children who were very young when we first met. They have a humble bungalow in the neighborhood that they are gradually renovating. They have called upon myself and my husband many times for us to do work – we have done everything from the simplest thing like shaving drawers so they slide, to building a large natural built in book case. This woman teaches school, has been of fairly humble means and has had challenges in her life, yet I have NEVER seen her with her lights off. Every day, whether the kids are screaming or hating naps or school, or the furnace blows up, or there’s a remodeling snafu, or she’s struggling with her “baby weight” or when her husband started a new business and there was no money for a while, she seemed to yes, get pulled down and feel some negativity but in general terms focus way more on her gratitude and seemed to float above everything on a cloud of self generated turn-on and happiness. I have never seen a more grateful human being. She loved her house and loved to make it nice. She expressed frustration at the amount of time it took either to save up money for the improvements or the noise / dust / etcetera of the renovation itself, but the frustration seemed like a small thing drowned in the power of her desire and her turn on. She loved shoes and made fun of herself having more than Imelda. Every little piddly thing I did for her house, she would look at and love and express happiness over. The big things, she shows to all the neighbors and they ooh and ah over it. She is a good cook and if I was working at her house she would make me some too and I would sit and eat with them. I have often wondered how life would be if I could give up my worries and be like her, or make my worries little fish in a big sea of satisfaction and gratitude. Now I hear from my husband: “have you seen X lately? She is glowing and slim and seems happier than ever, and Y (her husband) is selling his company for several million.”

  • Veroni October 15, 2013, 1:26 pm

    Mama Gena, thank you so much for this eye-opening post. I live in California and can’t travel to Miami right now, but I would love to meet and hang out with you some time. I am currently homeless and trying really hard to get myself back on my feet again after being separated for about a year and a half. I have a part-time job at Goodwill and have a relationship with an amazing man who treats me like a princess. I have to admit that my light hasn’t been shining much since my current circumstances are so terrible. I will make a conscious effort to keep my light on. I do have a hard time with having a community of women to support me, since women tend to be jealous and bring me down. I’m not sure where I could find women who would support me. I wish we had a Mama Gena group out here in Northern California. We need them all over the country! 🙂

    • Ruby Red October 15, 2013, 3:37 pm

      Veroni, hang in there! You sound beautiful and
      awesome! So positive and powerful and grateful! No wonder you have inspired jealousy in some women. Keep on believing in yourself!

  • Paige October 15, 2013, 12:45 pm

    Dear Mama Gena:
    Could you make the Miami Weekend available by webinar?
    Any parts of it?
    Could you accept this deep desire, and make it so?
    Time is short, I know – but with the fantastic sisterhood you have created – I know it could be pulled together!!!
    I am certain that soooooo many women around the world would LOVE to pay even to witness this magnificent weekend!!!!
    Please say YES!!!!
    With tremendous appreciation for your brilliant light,

    • Suzanne Bonham aka "kitty kitty" October 15, 2013, 1:28 pm

      Hear, Hear!!

    • Tracy October 16, 2013, 5:30 am

      Here, here from Ireland!! We need a pleasure revolution here Mama, be great to connect with the weekend! xx

      • SG Madeline October 20, 2013, 8:09 pm

        Hear Hear, from Germany! Let us have at least one dance break with y’alls!

        • Sui October 24, 2013, 7:53 am

          Oh yes!! Please say Yes!!! Please Please Please!!!!

    • little jo November 17, 2013, 11:29 am

      From UK and Belgium please…

  • Colleen Hannegan October 15, 2013, 11:29 am

    I choose to flip my switch back on as of this moment! Thank you Sister Goddesses!

  • Sister Goddess Princess Tammie Awakened Pussy October 15, 2013, 10:54 am

    Is my pleasure distracting me from my desire. When I signed up for boot camp I couldn’t wait to know it all and read all the books and started living all the assignments and applying my homework… I am so caught up in my pleasure….. I am distracted from doing anything constructive and working on my real estate desires…. Am I sabotaging my desires with too much pleasure??? (But what pleaseure it has been…… cruises, savage unbridaled sex, weekends with my kids, scrapbooking weekends away and more delicious love making of two hour sessions and all day in bed)

  • SG Seduction Cheryl October 15, 2013, 10:33 am

    The power of sisterhood is truly life changing. Because of Regena, Mastery and sisterhood, I am awakened and living a magical life never thought possible. I am shining brightly and manifesting the most incredible and amazing things in my life and my husband’s. Sisters ignite desires within I did not even know I had and at the same time flan the flames of my deepest burning desires. I believe I am worthy of all my opulent desires. I relish and savor those desires that will happen in divine timing. Regena and sisterhood returned me to my divine essence. I am the Creatrix of my pleasure-filled life and you can be too with the love and support of your sisters!

  • BSG Glitzy Cougar Karen October 15, 2013, 9:41 am

    These two blogs say it so beautifully…and what Regena is saying? It is playing out all over my life. I was so shut down from men and so angry/hurt about so many aspects of my life. I had done tons of spiritual work, therapy, and finally I said to the Divine…let’s heal this, and make it fun. Well, my desire was answered. Within a two week span, three women told me to get to Mama Gena’s. I did, and the change has been REMARKABLE.
    Her teaching is brilliant (and hilarious). I don’t think there is another program like this in the world. The sisterhood has opened me in so many ways, the first group that I have ever truly connected to. And the men? Well, let’s just say, as I have been opening my sensuality and turning on my light, they are radiating it back to me in so many ways.

    I spent money on this. The sisters have teased me that I got a Ph.D. in pleasure. I’m still working it, and it is the BEST GRADUATE program you will ever have. So come to Miami, ladies…feel it, play with it, and turn on your light. With much love and gratitude to you all…xo

    • mama gena October 15, 2013, 9:50 am

      thank u, karen!!!

    • little jo November 17, 2013, 11:27 am

      Easy to say for you American ladies…

  • SG Lovely Rita B October 15, 2013, 9:24 am

    Thank you Regina for this most timely post. I deeply desire to love and approve of myself-I know, we have had this conversation-but habits need a cowboy boot in the butt sometimes. I deeply deliriously desire freedom: mental, physical, financial and spiritual. I desire to come to this last Miami weekend, attend Mastery (again!) and live my besthottest life. I am so moved by the community you have created/stirred/ simmered/ savored. My light has been off more than on, but I can change that. I have the tools-thanks to Mastery. Today is the first day of the rest of my hot throbbing turned on life!

    • mama gena October 15, 2013, 9:49 am

      rita. i have tears in my eyes at your deep beautiful commitment to yourself. xo