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We all have it, don’t we?
Those spots where we are stuck, instead of inspired.
I have mine.  You have yours.
I will show you mine, if you show me yours.
In fact, I am not going to be able to solve mine alone.  None of us are, really.  How do I know this?  Well, I have been solving it alone for a long time and I am still stuck.
But my ego is large.
So, I keep on trying.  All by myself.
But I realize, if I am about to teach an Intro called ‘A Life Unbound’—I have to unbind myself.
And unbinding happens most effectively in only one place—in one way: COMMUNITY.  The Sister Goddess Community.

So, now I want to use this incredible community, and ask you for your help.
What do I want?
A man.

Not just any man.  I want a five-star guy.  And I know you know one.  And you may not have known that I want one.  Now you do.  This is my Christmas wish, my New Year’s desire.  I am ready for fun, ready for love, ready for partnership.
I am one powerful woman.  Hot.  Naughty.  Sweet.  Sacred.  Outspoken.  Devoted.   Raw.  Brilliant.  Funny and fun.  A guy has to be able to handle all that.

And he?  He makes me laugh.  He has the kind of sense of humor that notices the divine details.  He loves his work and knows his calling. He gives me space.  He is an amazing Dad.  He is a great communicator and knows how to recover after a conflict.  We have killer chemistry.  My full-throttle power turns him on. He loves women.  He serves the world.  People sometimes miss how amazing he is because he is so understated.  He is curious.  He listens.  Loves sex, loves to work out, loves art, music, horses, being outdoors, keeping busy and doing nothing.  He is a devoted friend.   He even cooks.

We are sitting outside at Le Dock in Fair Harbor, sharing a bowl of mussels, wine, watching the sunset.
Or throwing together an impromptu dinner party, because we just found out some friends are in town.  He grills.  I make Potato Milanese with tomatoes from the garden.
I go riding, he goes running, we come home and I tackle him, sweaty.
He surprises me with tickets to the Met, a down-to-the-ground-gown, a car and driver, and we get swept away by Puccini.  We both cry.
I am off for a few weeks with my daughter, he is off on his adventure, and we send sexy texts every day.
Sounds good, right?
So, I ask you-who do you have for me?

I am asking each of you—because I know that you are my sisters and that you have my back and only want the best for me. Leaning into all of you is a requirement for me making forward motion on my desire. Having Sister Goddesses cheering me on, bringing me guys, believing in my desire for love and partnership is ESSENTIAL for me to move past all those limitations and doubts that have kept me in my single status.

Here’s what I’d love to do…

If you know and want to send me an amazing man who lives in the New York area, send me an email at and tell me about him by Monday, January 3rd. (Oh my Goddess, I can’t believe I’m doing this!!!!!)

Here’s what I’d love you to tell me in the email:

1.     Why do you love him?
2.     Why he would be a good guy for me.
3.     And why he is Goddess-worthy.

I’m going to pick the 20 guys that turn me on. And if your guy is in the top 20, then I will e-mail you my contact info by Friday, January 7th, so he can call me.

Oh my Goddess—this is exhilarating and outrageous.  But if this is what it takes to get me unbound, unstuck and unleashed, and get me my guy, then I’m in!
I will keep you posted on the blog, and of course, update you at the Intro.

And let me return the favor…

By the way, I am DEEPLY COMMITTED to helping you get unbound and unstuck. Come to my Intro on January 20th, and let me give you the tips, the tools, the technology to get out of that spot where you are chained down. I so want you to have your desires. Together everything is possible.

‘A Life Unbound’ (open to all women 18 years and older)
Thursday, January 20th, 2011
7:00-10:00pm (doors open at 6:30pm)
Lighthouse International
111 E 59th Street, NYC (between Park & Lexington Avenues)
Cost: $50.00



With so much love and pleasure,
Mama Gena

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  • Soft Muisc January 17, 2011, 10:10 pm

    “We are sitting outside at Le Dock in Fair Harbor, sharing a bowl of mussels, wine, watching the sunset”.
    Thats very romantic To bad you were not listening my soft romantic music in your iPhone

  • SG Steph January 1, 2011, 2:47 pm

    Love this! I love seeing you lean into the community to reach for your greatest desire. I know the deadline is almost here, but if I come across the right man for you, I will send him your way, anyway! xoxo

  • SG Lori Taylor January 1, 2011, 12:47 pm

    Darling Mama of Mine, Happy New Year to you and Happy New MAN Year to you!!!!! You’re gorgeous, exquisite, fabulous, pure unbridled joy and delight. I know the most amazing man is on his way to you even as we speak! I am cheering you on in your wonderful bold experiment. How is it going? Are you getting wonderful responses????? Love and Kisses to you, SG Luscious Lori Taylor!!!

  • SG Teresa December 28, 2010, 5:03 pm

    Could you conjure that NYC TV hostess to sponsor you for the show “millionaire matchmaker”? It would be great PR and who knows, someone may just be the guy you’re lookin’ to have a fantastic story with.

    Finding a 5*guy is like finding realestate – I’ll keep my eyes/ears peeled for another HOT IPO like you who is available/ready now to make your dreams come true.
    cheers to your new match!
    xoxo T

  • Julie Clancy December 24, 2010, 12:56 pm

    I know of a great, really great guy, that I keep thinking of for you. Must do some research to find out if he is available. Last time I checked he was in a partnership. He lives in Hawaii. Will find out if he is single and could relocate.

    Loving you and your fabulous desire,

    Julie Clancy

  • mamagena December 23, 2010, 12:32 pm

    thank you all, for knocking me right on over, right on out, with a warm- no- hot- rush of sisterhood. what a feeling. your responses give wing, loft, and heft to my desires. i can feel it. and what a feeling. it’s like having many beautiful hands weave my most intimate dream. transparency and sisterhood. alchemy like no other. i teach it, now i feel it.
    with gratitude- mama gena
    ps. of course i will keep you posted.
    pps. of course i will date a guy from atlanta.
    ppps.of course i will look into how we can do unbound online.
    pppps. i thank you for taking the time to respond. it means so much to me.

  • Wildcherry December 23, 2010, 12:07 pm

    Oh yayayaya, this facet of your life has been real fresh on my juiced-up Wild Woman brain. Standing up proud and cherrylicious for your desires, darling Mama Gena.

    I am so busy training my own man, I don’t have time to check out any others 🙂 haha.

    I CANNOT WAIT TO HEAR OF YOUR CATCH…conjure him in precious woman. What’s a bet he is right now trying to figure out why the hell he has to be in New York! All our juice going forth. Oh yeah, lalalala…Mama Gena’s got herself a really awesome sweetie-pie of a hunk. Mmm, mmm, feeling it all the way.

    Sitting on the edge of my Pinkified Wildcherry seat with huge anticipation for THE DAY when we all get a ‘whiff’ of his aftershave mingling with your perfume….tsssss .

  • janine December 23, 2010, 10:35 am

    oh jolly. this requires lipstick and a miniskirt. let me go find santa…

    let me flirt with an elf and cut to the front of the line. let me sit on st. nick’s crushed velvet lap, bounce up and down like a 3-year old and whisper your words into his ear. let me print off this blog and seal it with kiss. let me tickle the warm fur trim of his deep red pocket as i slip your desires inside and slowly lean over in my low-cut v neck to say

    ‘give her whatever she wants, santa. give it to her her over and over again. flood her with a buffet of perfect brother gods.’

    put on your stilettos baby, it’s about to get tasty! so it is. this and so much better. thank you for gifting us the opportunity to put our attention on you. i praise your courage. i stand for you Sister as you surrender and receive the man of your dreams. may he ambush your mistletoe.

  • SG Melissa December 23, 2010, 9:53 am

    Congratulations for manifesting your life ! Very brave ! I can’t help (based on your criteria) and even my beloved can’t quite fit the bill – BUT – I would love to share in the dinner party since who you describe would be fascinating to get to know and your chemistry would be insane to be around…………Merry Christmas and I hope Santa brings it in a big sack !!! 😉

  • SG Tiiu December 23, 2010, 3:17 am

    Oh. My.God!!! How awsome! How brave and how inspiring! Yess to you!

    As I read it I thought – damn, the man who fits the bill just got hooked up this summer… and then I read you want him in NY – he is half the world away. But the main thing is – he is out there. For a fact! If there is at least one in a population of 1.3 million (Estonia) there sure as pussy there is one in a city of 8 (?) mio!

    Good luck! It IS a numbers game!

    SG Tiiu

  • Prada Madonna December 22, 2010, 10:08 pm

    Mama Gena –
    Have you tried
    I have many friends who met their soulmate on Match.
    Happy Holidays to you! And all the best to you in 2011.

  • SG Luxurious Laurie December 22, 2010, 6:53 pm

    How interesting that you are putting this out there, Regena…I have had this very thing on my mind for you for a while now…I love being a matchmaker, and have been keeping my eyes open for that special man for you…and, believe it or not, I also have a desire for a very special man for myself…so please keep me in mind, and it will absolutely be my pleasure to do the same for you!!! Our men are awaiting us…I feel it 🙂

    Laurie xoxo

  • Camilla Benedicte December 22, 2010, 5:41 pm

    Mama G!!! fuck… you’re so outrageously hot.. and putting out this desire woooooh even more so. I stand for your courage, vulnerability and knowing what you truly desire in a Man and being so foxy clever to know to ask your sisterhood. I honour your transparency, your appetite and your love of you.

    I’m way over on the other side of the ocean so instead of a man I’m sending you a magnetic mega tip which has bumped up my own conjuring skills beyond anything I’ve known before… and I was good!
    The word ‘want’ has 27 definitions that mean ‘to lack’. So you never want to want something… ’cause you’re putting out there that you ‘lack a man’. And you’ll keep on lacking him. To change your situ experiment with saying the opposite 10 times ‘I don’t want a man’ and notice how it actually lightens you (you’re saying I don’t lack a man) and you’re willing to have a man show up in your life… this will bring him to you so much sooner.
    From now on say ‘I will have a man thank you v much’ – and you’re putting out there that a man is a given for you.

    What will it take for you and him to find each other with so much ease, pleasure and joy?

    with love and abandon
    SG Camilla

  • Juicy Joy December 22, 2010, 4:37 pm

    I second the online or tele-class suggestion!

    Please, don’t forget about the rest of us whom getting to NYC is a huge Hong Kong deal. Some of us are already attempting to manifest money and tickets to get to the BIG events and classes.
    I’d even be willing to simply hear a broadcast/re-broadcast of the class itself.

    xox SG JJ

  • ingrid December 22, 2010, 3:55 pm

    I honestly believe that you will attract this amazing man in divine timing. As you sit in your magnificience gorgeous gal he will come to you. Perhaps the unstuck part will come before the manifestation of your desire. If I think of anyone I will pass him on!

    Yes and please run your course online or as a two part tele-class perhaps.

    Much love, beauty and that amazing man, Ingrid x

  • Cindy S December 22, 2010, 3:28 pm

    I want the same thing in a man! Please let me know if you know of one in Palm Beach County, FL:)

  • SG Ti December 22, 2010, 3:24 pm

    I wish I had a man to submit to the lottery! This is so brave and such a goddess move. I’m all juiced up thinking of you and your Tantalizing Twenty. If I wasn’t across the country, I’d be sitting front and center for the class. Thank you for mirroring transparency and the power of sisterhood!

  • HRHFoxy December 22, 2010, 2:52 pm

    YES, to your MAN being brought to you in the most fierce way EVER!

  • Juicy Joy December 22, 2010, 2:49 pm

    Wow! Mama Gena, it seems we have the same taste in men. LOL

    I have good news and bad news………………..
    Good news, I have a very hot prospect for you! Bad news, he lives outside of Atlanta =(
    Keep in mind, absence does make the heart grow fonder, so ya-never-know, it may work between the two of you. If nothing else, ya never know who he knows. Am I right?

    Hey, and why not be able to play in two great cities instead of just one ? =)
    Of course then there are all those fabulous weekend jaunts to meet somewhere along the Eastern seaboard or on a romantic off-shore island.

    I don’t know him all that well, but everything I know about him fits your wish list, and he’s a lot closer to you than to me here in SoCal. I’ll put it out to him and see if he’s game. He’s adventuresome and just might be. Though he’s not in your local area I may still toss his hat into the ring. Dating is, after all, a numbers game. Luckily it has better odds than Vegas.

    What fun! Thanks for putting yourself out there as an example to us all.
    With great admiration and respect,

    SG Juicy Joy

  • Shakaya Leone December 22, 2010, 2:30 pm

    Holding the space for your Braveheart man,
    to melt your heart and see your soul, to kiss your feet and lavish you with the bounty of his fierce, protective love, to run your baths and kiss your hair, to shower you with sweet surprises and ravish you senseless behind closed doors…all this and more you so deserve you intoxicatingly beautiful creature like no other…

    Claiming your desire and asking for assistance is powerful and authentic, inspiring and just plain beautiful.
    Love and endless magic xo Earth Empress Shakaya
    PLEASE run this Unbound course online too for all your international siStar Goddesses